We're getting married

Brenda &
Wongani

Saturday, September 18, 2027

Dreams Playa Mujeres Golf & Spa Resort
Costa Mujeres, Mexico

Just engaged: Brenda holding a bouquet of roses and lilies and showing her ring, Wongani beside her on a balcony overlooking a vineyard under a clear blue sky.

Our Story

From two familiar faces to this

We first crossed paths during our freshman year at UT Dallas. He was a friend of my roommate, so our early interactions were quick hellos, shared jokes, and passing impressions. At the time, neither of us thought much of it, just two familiar faces in the same orbit.

Early selfie of Brenda and Wongani from January 2017, both smiling.
Freshman year, before either of us knew where life would take us. January 2017.

Two years later, life lined things up differently. What once felt like coincidence suddenly felt intentional. That's when I began to notice the depth behind his humor, how steady, kind, and genuine he was. And he learned that I wasn't distant or mysterious at all, just a little quiet and shy. We officially began dating on February 2, 2018.

Brenda and Wongani standing in front of a frozen lake with snow-covered Pikes Peak behind them.Pikes Peak, Colorado
Brenda kissing Wongani on the cheek on a foggy beach with sea stacks rising from the water.La Push Beach, Washington
Brenda and Wongani dressed up for a night out, her in a black dress and him in a suit and tie.New Orleans, Louisiana
Across cities and years, learning each other along the way.

Since then, our story has grown through graduations, moves, shared adventures, and countless everyday moments. Somewhere along the way, what started as chance became something much bigger, a partnership built on comfort, trust, and a feeling of home.

Brenda in cap and gown holding her UT Dallas diploma, Wongani beside her at commencement.December 2019
Wongani in cap and gown with an orange UT Dallas stole, standing in front of a long reflecting pool lined with magnolia trees.December 2020
Different stages, different years, but always cheering each other on.

After all of that, we're excited to celebrate the next chapter with the people we love most. See you in Mexico.

Brenda and Wongani at a candlelit restaurant dinner in January 2026, her engagement ring catching the light.
After nearly eight years together (and not nearly enough photos), we finally made it official.
Aerial view of Dreams Playa Mujeres: lagoon-style pools and a round lawn ringed by palms, with the resort buildings on either side and the turquoise Caribbean stretching to the horizon.

Travel & Stay

Three nights in Costa Mujeres

Here's the short version:

  • The resort is all-inclusive. Food, drinks, and most activities are covered once you've booked.
  • Rooms booked through our block also include shared roundtrip airport transfers from Cancún and a $100 resort credit, which public rates don't.
  • Prices below are the total for the room for all three nights — not per night, and not per person.
  • We reserved a block of rooms at held rates, and the block is limited.

Suggested travel: arrive Thursday, September 16 and depart Sunday, September 19.

Two separate steps — please do both

1. RSVP

Tells us you're coming. Goes to our form. RSVP here.

2. Book your room

Reserves and pays for your stay. Goes to our travel specialist's booking site. Book here.

RSVPing is not booking. We need both from you.

They don't have to happen together. RSVP now and book whenever you're ready.

Rooms & rates

Pick a room

Use the toggle on each card to see the rate for one, two, or three guests. Photos of every room are on the booking site.

Junior Suite, Pool View

Pool view · 602 sq ft · King or two queens · Up to 4 guests, max 3 adults

$1,531 total for the room, 3 nights

About $255 per person per night, all meals and drinks included

What's in the room

Separate living room with a sofa bed for two, full bathroom with shower, double vanity, and a private balcony with a jacuzzi.

Junior Suite, Ocean View

Ocean view · 602 sq ft · King or two queens · Up to 4 guests, max 3 adults

$1,711 total for the room, 3 nights

About $285 per person per night, all meals and drinks included

What's in the room

Separate living room with a sofa bed for two, full bathroom with shower, double vanity, and a private balcony with a jacuzzi.

Preferred Club Junior Suite, Ocean View

Ocean view · 624 sq ft · King or two queens · 4 to 5 guests, max 3 adults

$1,976 total for the room, 3 nights

About $329 per person per night, all meals and drinks included

What's in the room

Everything in the Junior Suite — separate living room with sofa bed, full bathroom, double vanity, balcony with jacuzzi — plus Preferred Club lounge access and upgraded amenities.

Preferred Club Swim Out, Ocean View

Ocean view · 624 sq ft · King or two queens · Up to 3 guests, ages 13+

$2,151 total for the room, 3 nights

About $359 per person per night, all meals and drinks included

What's in the room

All the Preferred Club perks, plus a semi-private pool right off the terrace overlooking the ocean.

Preferred Club Master Suite, Oceanfront

Oceanfront · 1,162 sq ft · King · Up to 4 guests, max 3 adults

$3,530 total for the room, 3 nights

About $588 per person per night, all meals and drinks included

What's in the room

First floor, with a separate living room, dining table, hydrotub, private pool, and direct beach access.

Traveling on your own? Room rates are close to the same whether one or two people stay, so two guests sharing a room each pay noticeably less than booking alone. If you'd like help finding someone to share with, let us know.

Rates shown are our locked group rates from the original room block. Availability is confirmed on the booking site.

Once the block fills, new requests go through approval at current rates.

Booking for four guests, bringing children, or another configuration? Rates vary — check the booking site directly or contact our specialist for a quote.

Staying offsite? Day passes to the resort are available so you can still join everything. Reach out to us or the travel advisor to arrange one.

Book your room

Questions about rooms, rates, or dates? Reach our travel specialist: Jose Guillen-Lambert at Destination Weddings, 469.478.6376 (call, text, or WhatsApp), jguillen@destinationweddings.com

Heads-up: our travel specialist manages the room block through their booking system, so the next page will look different from this one. That's normal.

Getting there

The practical stuff

Flights & airport

Fly into Cancún International (CUN). The resort is about 40 minutes north by car. Airport transfers can be arranged when you book — ask our specialist — or you can take a private shuttle or taxi from the airport.

Passports

You need a valid passport to enter Mexico — a driver's license won't work. If yours is expired or expiring soon, start the renewal now. Processing can take a few months, and you'll want it in hand well before September 2027.

Staying longer

Want to arrive early or stay past Sunday? You can. Tell our specialist when you book and they'll quote the extra nights. Rates for nights outside the block are set at the time of booking.

FAQ

Questions, answered

What's included in the resort price?

Almost everything. Meals at the resort restaurants, drinks (including alcohol), snacks, pools, entertainment, and most activities are covered once your room is booked. A few things cost extra, like spa treatments, motorized water sports, and certain premium experiences.

Do I need a passport, and how far in advance?

Yes. Everyone traveling needs a valid passport, including kids. If you don't have one or yours expires before spring 2028, apply or renew as soon as you can — processing can take a few months. We'd suggest having it sorted by early 2027 so it's one less thing to think about.

What's the dress code?

Think beach formal. For the ceremony: sundresses, light suits, linen, guayaberas — dressy but breathable, since it will be warm. The reception is the same, just plan for dancing. Please avoid wearing shades of white, champagne, or similar light neutrals, which are reserved for the couple. Leave the heavy fabrics at home. We'll share any updates here as we finalize details.

Are kids welcome?

Yes! The resort is family-friendly and has a kids' club. One note: the Swim Out rooms are for guests 13 and up, so families with younger kids should pick one of the other room types.

What's the weather like in September?

Hot and humid — highs in the upper 80s to low 90s °F, with a chance of brief afternoon showers. September is also within the Caribbean storm season, so travel insurance is worth considering when you book. Evenings by the water are warm and breezy.

Do I need cash, and are tips expected?

Gratuities are technically included, but small cash tips for bartenders, servers, and housekeeping are common and appreciated. Bring some small US dollar bills or pesos. You won't need much cash otherwise, since nearly everything is covered.

How do I get from the airport?

The resort is about 40 minutes from Cancún International (CUN). If you book through our block, shared roundtrip transfers are included; note they may stop at other hotels along the way. Private transfers can be arranged through our specialist. We don't recommend renting a car unless you plan to explore beyond the resort.

Can I arrive early or stay longer?

Yes. Tell our specialist the dates you want when you book and they'll quote the additional nights. Plenty of people are turning the weekend into a longer trip.

What if I can't travel on the suggested dates?

The block is built around Thursday, September 16 to Sunday, September 19, but our specialist can quote other arrival and departure dates. Just make sure you're at the resort by Friday evening, September 17, so you don't miss anything.

I'm traveling solo. Can I share a room with another guest?

Yes, and it can meaningfully lower your cost, since rooms are priced nearly the same for one or two people. If you'd like us to connect you with another solo guest, mention it in your RSVP or email us and we'll help match you up.

What does it cost for four or more people, or kids, in one room?

Rates for one, two, and three adults are on the Travel & Stay page. For four guests, children, or any other configuration, check the booking site directly or contact our travel specialist for a quote: Jose Guillen-Lambert at Destination Weddings, 469.478.6376 (call, text, or WhatsApp), jguillen@destinationweddings.com

Can I stay somewhere else and still come to the wedding?

Yes. If you'd rather stay offsite, the resort offers day passes so you can join the ceremony, reception, and everything in between. Reach out to us or the travel advisor and we'll help arrange it.

Do I book through the link or on my own?

Please book through our link. Block rates are locked, include shared roundtrip airport transfers and a $100 resort credit, and count you with the group for wedding events. Rates you may see elsewhere don't include those, can't be modified once booked, and won't be linked to our block.

Is there a registry?

No registry. Your being there is the gift — truly, this is not a small trip.

Who do I contact if something goes wrong with my booking?

For anything about rooms, payments, dates, or the booking site, contact our travel specialist directly: Jose Guillen-Lambert at Destination Weddings, 469.478.6376 (call, text, or WhatsApp), jguillen@destinationweddings.com. For everything else, just reach out to us directly.

RSVP

Tell us you're coming

RSVPing holds your spot at the wedding, but it doesn't reserve a room. To book your stay, head to Travel & Stay whenever you're ready. RSVP first, book later is perfectly fine.

Staying offsite? That works too — the resort offers day passes so you can join everything. Details on Travel & Stay.

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